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How to Personalise Your Wedding Music to Make Your Day Truly Special

When it comes to planning a wedding, there are countless decisions to make. From choosing the venue to selecting the perfect dress, every aspect of the day requires careful consideration to ensure that it reflects the couple's unique style and personality. One of the most important elements of any wedding is the music, as it sets the tone for the entire event and creates an atmosphere of celebration and joy. But with so many options available, it can be challenging to know where to start when it comes to personalising your wedding music. In this blog post, lets explore some tips and ideas to help you create a truly special and personalised soundtrack for your big day.

Choose songs or pieces of music that are meaningful to you

  1. Start with your favorite songs: Begin by making a list of your favorite songs and artists. These can be songs that have special meaning to you as a couple or simply tracks that you love to dance to. This list will serve as the foundation for your personalised wedding playlist and will help guide your choices as you work with your musician or DJ.

  2. Consider your wedding theme and style: Your wedding theme and style can also provide inspiration for your music choices. If you're having a rustic wedding, for example, you may want to incorporate folk or country music into your playlist. On the other hand, if you're having a modern, city wedding, you may want to focus on more contemporary or pop music.

  3. Think about the ceremony: The ceremony is often the most formal part of the wedding, and the music you choose can help set the tone for this special moment. Consider whether you want traditional wedding music, such as Canon in D, or if you prefer something more contemporary. You may also want to include special songs that have significance to you and your partner, such as a song that was playing during your first date or from a live concert you both went to. During there ceremony there are 3 main moments to have music: The entrance/walking down the aisle (usually one track), the signing of the register (usually 2-3 tracks) and the exit (usually 1 track followed by more music as guests leave the ceremony).

  4. Personalize your first dance: The first dance is one of the most memorable moments of any wedding reception, and choosing the right song is key. Consider selecting a song that has special meaning to you as a couple, whether it's a song that was playing during a significant moment in your relationship or a song that you simply both love.

  5. Create a do-not-play list: Just as important as the songs you want to include in your wedding playlist are the songs you don't want to hear. Be sure to create a do-not-play list for your musician or DJ, so they know which songs to avoid playing.

Consider different genres and styles

One way to personalize your wedding music is to choose a genre or style that is meaningful to you and your partner. While acoustic music is a popular choice for weddings, there are many different genres and styles to choose from, including classical, jazz, pop, country, and folk, among others. Consider your personal taste in music, as well as the overall tone and theme of your wedding, when selecting a genre or style.

For example, if you and your partner love classical music, you might opt for a string quartet or solo violinist to perform during your ceremony. If you're more of a folk or country music fan, you might choose an acoustic guitar player to perform during your reception. You could also mix and match genres and styles to create a unique and eclectic soundtrack for your day.

It's important to communicate your musical preferences and vision to your acoustic musician or band, as they can help guide you in selecting the right songs and arrangements to fit your style. Don't be afraid to ask for recommendations or to provide specific songs or artists that you would like to be included in the performance.

Live acoustic music

Live acoustic music is a great way to add a personal touch to your wedding day. Whether you hire a solo acoustic musician, a duo, or a small band, live music can bring a warmth and intimacy to your celebration that recorded music simply can't match. Plus, live music allows for more flexibility and personalisation than pre-recorded tracks.

Consider having a live acoustic musician perform during your ceremony, drinks reception, or during the wedding breakfast. They can play your favourite songs, create a custom playlist, or even learn a new song just for your special day. You can also work with the musician to create unique arrangements of your favorite songs, adding a personal twist to the music. In. the past I've been asked to change names, hair colours and other lyrics to surprise a partner and the guests, it works great!

Live music also allows for more interaction and connection with your guests. Your musician can engage with the crowd, take requests, and even involve your guests in a sing-along. This creates a fun and memorable experience for everyone involved.

In addition, live acoustic music is versatile and can fit a variety of wedding themes and styles. Whether you're going for a rustic, bohemian vibe or a classic, elegant affair, there's a style of acoustic music that can fit perfectly. With the flexibility, versatility, and personalization of live music, you can make your wedding day truly special.

Incorporate special moments and details

Your wedding day is unique, and your music should reflect that. Consider incorporating special moments and details into your music choices to make your day even more meaningful. For example, you could have the musician or DJ hidden and start playing a song halfway through your speech to surprise all the guests or change the first dance song halfway through from a romantic song to a more upbeat party party track. You could also consider adding special touches, such as having the musician play a song that was important to a loved one who couldn't be there on the day, or having the musician learn a song in a language that has significance to your heritage or cultural background.

By incorporating special moments and details into your wedding music, you'll create an even more personalised experience for you, your partner, and your guests. Don't be afraid to get creative and think outside the box – the possibilities are endless!

Personalising your wedding music can add a special touch to your big day and make it truly memorable. From selecting meaningful songs to choosing the right musicians and incorporating unique details, there are many ways to make your wedding music truly personal. By considering different genres and styles, having live acoustic music, and incorporating special moments and details, you can create a wedding soundtrack that reflects your love story and celebrates your unique personalities. So don't be afraid to think outside the box and get creative with your wedding music – it's a small but important detail that can make a big impact on your special day.


Thank you for reading! As a professional acoustic musician and singer based in London, I specialize in providing beautiful and personalized music for weddings. If you're looking for a unique and memorable musical experience for your special day, I would love to work with you. With over 11years and 500+ weddings of experience, I'm dedicated to creating a beautiful atmosphere that reflects your unique style and vision. Contact me today to learn more and book your wedding music.


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